time to change

hi,
there is no time to sit by and to see the life just passing by in front of you; there is no time to see that you are in somebody else's control. believe me, nothing sucks more than to losing your control on your self.
so, you need a fresh start. I know, I have said this line many times over but you have to remind yourself time and again, otherwise you lose motivation. I have past my fear( well almost ) and now its time to give second chance to yourself.
First of all, you have to fight your fear. but saying that, it is not at all easy to do in pratice. there are certain fear which you have to overpower for your rest your life and it is continious process which you have to do all along..